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How To Figure Out What To Do With My Life – Take Control!

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If Life Gives You Lemons, Just Take Control And Throw Them Back!

You’re stuck in a bad place and not sure how to get out of it, am I right? You might have lost your job and don’t know what to do next or you might just be feeling low and need and new direction.

You’re not the only one feeling like this

I’ve been there myself, just sat there thinking of how to figure out what to do with my life, I’ve been so unhappy with things that I just couldn’t face waking up the next day and it took me a while to find out what I wanted to do. I was drinking heavily and getting into debt and nearly losing my family but I just couldn’t figure things out.Debt

My family kept telling me to snap out of it but it was plain to see that I just wasn’t ready and needed time to find myself, it was just and shame that I had to look deep down at the bottom of and bottle to see if anything was there, but guess what? It wasn’t!

You first need to find out what you want out of life and there are 4 main things you need to figure out and there’s 1 answer that’s not like the others in each category so see if you can tell which one it is.

Before you look at them just take a look at this video, it might even cheer you up and give you a much needed boost for the rest of the day


Which ones do you need to focus on?


  1. ​A total career change
  2. Work for yourself
  3. Get a different job in the same industry
  4. Just stay unemployed and live off benefitsI need a job


  1. Seek financial help
  2. Speak to family and friends
  3. Get into debt and loose everything
  4. Keep working until you can find something else


  1. ​Get regular exercise
  2. Eat healthily
  3. Get in the right frame of mind
  4. Forget the calories and just slob out in front of the television all day and everyday


  1. Lock yourself away from the outside world and only talk to the stray cats that you “catnap”
  2. Meet new people
  3. Bring down that barrier and let people in slowly
  4. Join a club or class

Do you know which one is not like the others boys and girls?

Finding your purpose 

Now it’s not about me telling you what you need to do, it’s about finding it for yourself and knowing that it’s what you want out of life.

I don’t work for anybody now, I work for myself at home creating websites like this one for free through a place called WEALTHY AFFILIATE and I’ve never been happier. Yes it can get hard work at times but I just think that I’ve got through the toughest part of my life so anything after that is just like adding up 1+1……..

The answer is 2 before any of you ask me the answer and I didn’t even use a calculator or have to add up on my fingers ?



Take it slowly

The point I’m making is if you break down those 4 options above and tackle them one at a time it will be so much easier to understand what you want and what you need to do.

Take your time and don’t rush into things, evaluate every situation and focus on one thing at a time and before you know it you will be wondering what all the fuss was about.

If you ever need any advice or help in any way I’m always here to help, I might not be able to offer you a couch to lie down on but I can offer you the advice I was given to get back on my feet again.

Now start getting into a routine and get back out there, life is for living not just for existing nobody gets to live life backwards (unless you’re Benjamin button) so look forward because that’s where your future lies.

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10 comments on “How To Figure Out What To Do With My Life – Take Control!

Beautiful site and a great post. I like the option of not rushing into things and taking it slow ! Finding one’s purpose is very important. Good one. Keep it up.


Thanks im pleased you liked it, pop by anytime 🙂


I love this site, and I love that your unique sense of humor comes through so well. . I think the lay out and look of your site is also really impressive, the use of color and pics and animation and the light hearted video, was fun.


Thanks im really pleased that you enjoyed it


I like this approach to get people to stop and take a look in the mirror. It is attention-grabbing with a very important message.


it really is an important message that most people dont like to admit to


With that title, I couldn’t help but click on your post and read it! I have been wondering this for years about myself. I have a good job and a great family, but sometimes I wonder what I am supposed to do with my life. I love the video. From your list of 4 topics, work has always been a big one for me. Health is definitely up there too. Working out and eating right are so critical to maintaining good health. Maybe you are right, I need to take the plunge and start to work for myself. Thanks for the catchy title and encouraging me to read this post.


most people are not really happy with their jobs so it makes sense to work for yourself i think


I’ve read posts or articles like this quite a few times now. Not too long ago, I started developing habits and routines that would make me a better version of myself. I’ve been happy for the most part. But I always struggle with ‘turning negatives into positives’.

Just today, I hit a negative and it’s affected me – even up to now.

I like the point that you brought up about ‘not rushing into things and taking it slow’. I’ve been telling myself this the whole day. But anyway, thanks for this post. It’s reminders like this that usually help me get over negatives.


I myself have my good and bad days but i feel much better once i turn on my computer and start earning money working for myself


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